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What is a Nesting Party?

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Centered on the invaluable gift of time, nesting parties are focused mainly on actionable tasks like cleaning the expecting family's home, baby-proofing, preparing postpartum meals, folding laundry, assembling the nursery, and providing any essential household items. This approach not only eases the expecting family's burden but also contributes significantly to their well-being and readiness for the new arrival.


Baby Shower Vs. Nesting Party


Nesting parties:

  • Hosted by close friends or family in the expecting family's home

  • Nesting parties prioritize the gift of time, offering support through tasks such as home cleaning, baby-proofing, meal preparation for postpartum, laundry folding, nursery assembly, and supplying household essentials, significantly easing the expecting family's preparations.

  • Aims to provide, practical, essential items and hands-on help, such as cleaning supplies, baby essentials, and even preparing meals for postpartum recovery.

  • Offers holistic support for the entire family


Baby Showers:

  • Centered on celebrating baby with lavish gifts and games

  • Focused on baby's physical needs and gifts

  • Hosted by close friends or family out of the expecting family's home


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Benefits of Holding a Nesting Party


To-Do Lists Get Completed Faster

During nesting parties an expecting family's home may be cleaned, and organized to their wishes, facilitating a clean environment conducive to bonding with the newborn. With the help of loved ones, the daunting array of tasks facing new parents becomes manageable, preventing burnout and anxiety over deadlines. This proactive support allows families to focus on rest, bonding, and recovery in the early, often intense, months of parenthood, reducing the likelihood of postpartum depression and other challenges, and paving the way for a smoother transition into family life.


Fostering Community and Support

Nesting parties foster a deep sense of community, trust, support among friends and family members. By coming together to offer practical assistance rather than simply showering the expectant couple with gifts, guests actively participate in preparing for the new child. We love these parties because they seem to symbolize to the expecting family that there will be an entire community there to support them, and the parties seem to create lasting memories in the process.


Mindful Celebration

Beyond the tangible benefits, nesting parties symbolize a shift towards a more mindful and sustainable approach to celebrating new life. In a world increasingly characterized by consumerism and excess, these gatherings present a refreshing perspective on parenting—emphasizing that what you do matters more than what you have.


Inclusivity and Universality

Nesting parties create an inclusive environment for celebrating new life, welcoming a wider array of guests beyond the traditional circle of close friends and family. These events harness the diverse strengths of attendees—from neighbors to colleagues—facilitating efficient task completion and support for the expecting family. By focusing on the universal aspects of parenthood rather than material gifts or themes, nesting parties unite people across cultural and socioeconomic lines in a shared celebration of new beginnings.


Where to Find Nesting Party Inspiration

With the rising popularity of nesting parties, social media has become a great place to take inspiration. Expectant parents post snapshots and tales from their nesting parties, encouraging others to explore this unique take on preparing for a baby. For a wealth of creative ideas, searching hashtags like #nestingparty or #nestingpartyinspo on Pinterest and Instagram is a great start.

Hosting Your Nesting Party

Start by selecting a date and crafting an invitation. We even created a free nesting party invitation template that is fully customizable that we highly recommend using. If some guests might be unfamiliar with the concept of a nesting party, consider including a brief explanation in the invite. It's beneficial for the expectant parents to prepare a 'to-do' list for better organization. A creative touch we love is the idea of a task board—inspired by a Pinterest user—where guests can pick a task to help out by removing it from the board.


Wrapping it Up


Whether you are an expecting parent or throwing your first nesting party for a loved one, it will be time well spent. Nesting parties are rising in popularity for a reason: because they focus on time spent rather than money. It's easy to buy a gift. It's harder to carve out time to be in service of someone else, but it is one of the most precious gifts that can be given.


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